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Well it's that time of year again; time to plan your summer vacation or
family gathering. Here at DeadFred, we've been thinking about the beach.
(click each photo for a larger view)

If you are interested in having a family reunion at a resort, here are
a few websites you might find helpful:
http://travel.discovery.com/fansites/worldsbest/familyresorts/familyresorts.html
http://www.resortsandlodges.com/top_family_resorts.html
http://travelwithkids.about.com/cs/vacationideas/l/bltpvacations.htm
http://www.rentvillas.com/PropertyListing.aspx?CategoryId=30
"If man cares not for his roots, then how can he care for
his branches."
-Doyle M. Davis
"I should have asked them before they died."
-Anonymous
"If you shake the tree, don't be surprised at the nuts that fall."
-Sent in by Alistair Orton
If you have a quote or anecdote for our Meditation Corner, send it to
us at meditation@deadfred.com.
Discovery 228, 229 and 230

Dear Dead Fred's Joe:
Thanks for your correspondence.
Asa, Sarah, and Joe Kemp-Camp was definitely one of the lost family. They
were visiting in Ark. at the time and must have been visiting his brother,
Wm S. Camp that was my grandfather.
As for information; They were from around Virginia, Mississippi and Alabama.
They are from the Camp and Winifred Starling line. Their home roots are
Abberville and Rutherford, South Carolina and North Carolina.
Thanks again Joe. Another lost family member found.
Thanks to you and your work. I think it's "Fantastic".
Sincerely,
Rose
Discovery 231
Discovery 232
Discovery 233
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Good morning from Texas, |
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From that information, I knew his wife's name and date of marriage
and the name of their first child. A friend of mine ran his name
through the census and came up with the names of his other two children.
Someone sent me Harvey's obit from the Chicago newspaper where I
found out his date of death and where he was buried. My brother
in Chicago went to the cemetery and copied other family members
names and birth year and death. Two days later I located the living
grandchildren. I am so happy that I found your site. You are doing
a wonderful job. I'm hoping for more Smith pictures from Vermont
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Have you found a relative? Be sure to write and tell us about your lucky discoveries at DeadFred.com! Share your reunion experience here.
I enjoyed your feature on baseball. My husband's uncle was in the minor
leagues and we are told he is in the Missouri Baseball Hall of Fame. Does
anyone know if there is a website for it, where it is located, etc.
Shirley
Enjoy your website!!!!! Thanks!!!
Lois Ferguson
Whether you have a bone to pick or a eulogy to offer, send your thoughts
to letters@deadfred.com.
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Faces From The Past There was no telling how long the dusty box of old photographs next to the cash register went unnoticed by countless passersby in that antique shop in Galena, Illinois. Therefore, when one woman by the name of Marge Rice casually purchased a dozen or so of the box's contents on a perfectly ordinary day in September 2000, the transaction seemed rather insignificant and quickly melted away into the everyday humdrum. |
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However, despite the lack of fanfare that usually accents a powerfully heroic undertaking, the event was very significant indeed, as it marked the beginning of an ongoing crusade by Marge to reunite orphaned photos with their rightful families. As of April 28, 2004, she has sent 632 photos home to 477 people. When Marge was sifting through the old photos at the antique shop, she found many of them had written names on the backs as well as imprints of photographer locations. Staring at the images, she imagined how much she would appreciate the opportunity to be reunited with her own long-lost ancestral photos, so she bought a handful of photos with the hopes of reuniting others with the found images. She then posted the names, other identification information and her contact information on surname boards at both www.ancestry.com and www.genforum.com. "Getting return e-mails from excited people, thrilled that they FINALLY could see their ancestors' faces is what got me 'hooked,'" Marge confessed. "What keeps me going are the grand thank-you notes I receive from people who tell me what a great service I am doing and how much the family appreciates having the photos." She illustrated her point by describing one heartwarming reunion that still resonates in her memory. She sent a woman an original family photo taken about 1890 that depicted parents in their mid-thirties with five young children seated in front, all against the backdrop of a farmhouse. "When the photo arrived, [the woman] took it to her elderly father, and when he saw it, his eyes filled with tears. He told her, 'This one is my daddy, and this is my aunt so-and-so. That one is my uncle so-and-so...and those are my grandma and grandpa!' I believe that his father was about age 5 in the photo; he had never ever seen his grandparents' faces before, and they had passed on before he was born," Marge recounted. "...[H]er dad clutched the photo to his chest, cried and sobbed, looked at it again and cried some more. She said that she just stood there and cried, too. And when I read her thank-you note to me, I cried." With over 500 unposted photos still in her office, Marge sometimes spends 20 hours or more per week on her reuniting efforts. Naturally, she has refined her method with practice. Before posting her finds on surname boards, she looks at census records to verify ages and locations and ensure dissemination of accurate information. If she is working with extremely rare surnames, she researches the same names currently in the same locations and writes letters via U.S. postal mail to country genealogical societies or the families directly. When sending the original photo to a person, she asks only for her costs, which include cost of photo and state sales tax, cost of sturdy photo mailer and cost of postage. "I foresee more and more reuniting of photos in years to come, simply because while descendants locate information on archived surname boards and contact me, at the same time I will be posting more and more found photos for the first time," Marge declared. My mission is to do as much reuniting of original photos (with names on the backs) as possible in the years I have left to me." Like DeadFred.com, Marge Rice has received an Honoring Our Ancestors grant from Megan Smolenyak to support her orphaned photo rescuing, and Megan maintains the "Marge-O-Meter" at www.honoringourancestors.com, which monitors Marge's progress. Remember to check the Marge-O-Meter periodically, and heed Marge's advice: "For the sake of YOUR descendants, for goodness' sake, write the names on the backs of your own photos." It may seem like an insignificant action now, but sometimes the most heroic acts begin with subtlety yet affect hundreds of people over time. For additional information, contact: Marge Rice |
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We would like to thank those who responded to last month's photo of the
month.
I hope you will find this month's photograph just as fun.

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Where was this "work party" picture taken?
What does the upside-down triangle on the man's shirt represent?
Please send us your Photo
of the Month Comments.
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| Subject: Keperling Bible | ||
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Photo
Album C1880 Indiana
Photo
Album C1918 Kentucky
School
Annual 1910 Old Point Comfort College, VA
There were so many great mystery photos submitted in the past month, we wanted you to be able to see them all. The photos shown below are a small sample.
For more, browse theses links:
Mysteries
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Mysteries
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Mysteries
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Mysteries
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Mysteries
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Mysteries
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Click on each photo for a larger view.

3 middle-aged people, well dressed.
Photo Number: 26114
Comments: Photographer is from Salem, Mass. e bay item 3286448950.

c1918 Family Group w/Dog
Photo Number: 26178
KY
USA
Comments: c1918 Photo Album centered in Kentucky , to see the complete
album, Scroll to bottom of this page and click on to "View all records
submitted" Contact is Webmaster@deadfred.com. Keywwords: a4
c1880s Young Lady with Bonnet & Flowers
Photo Number: 26518
Columbus, OH
USA
Comments: c1880 Photo Album mostly Portland , Indiana , to see the complete
album, Scroll to bottom of this page and click on to "View all records
submitted" Contact is Webmaster@deadfred.com. Keywords: a20

c1890 Cute Little Girl
Photo Number: 26539
Cadilliac, MI
USA
Comments: Photographer Will M Harmer //c1880 Photo Album mostly Portland
, Indiana , to see the complete album, Scroll to bottom of this page
and click on to "View all records submitted" Contact is Webmaster@deadfred.com.
Keywords: a20

Family
Photo Number: 26558
USA
Comments: Females wearing headcoverings; possibly Brethren, Dunker,
Dunkard, or Mennonite. Found among assorted photos purchased at a consignment
auction. Other photos may or may not be from same family lines but,
if you locate a relative, please check my other listed pics!

Young Couple
Photo Number: 26615
VA
USA
Comments: Portrait of young couple taken outdoors in a yard with a picket
fence. Found among assorted photos purchased at a consignment auction.
Other photos may or may not be from same family lines but, if you locate
a relative, please check my other listed pics!

2 cuties
Photo Number: 26655
USA
Comments: Snapshot of two cute kids (sister and brother?) taken outdoors
in a yard with a fence and houses in background. No photographer's info.
Found among assorted photos purchased at a consignment auction. Other
photos may or may not be from same family lines but, if you locate a
relative, please check my other listed pics!
Here's a new challenge. Joe seems to think the subject
of this Archive photo looks a lot like...well, we'll let you decide for
yourself. Give it your best shot.
Send your feedback to deadringers@deadfred.com.
Last Month's Results:
(We thought he looked like Jude Law.)

Here's who you thought he looked like ordered by number
of responses:
Bing Crosby
George Bush
James Cagney
Anthony Hopkins
Jimmy Stewart
Kirk Douglas
Adain Quinn
John Carradine
Boris Karloff
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